Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy things

This is just another post of things that have happened recently that made me happy.

-The carrots from the garden grew big enough to bother eating AND tasted good. If you have ever tried to grow carrots you will understand my amazement at this feat. ( The trick is sandy soil.)

- Even though I am a terrible slacker my kids still had jack-o-lanterns tonight. My awesome cousin babysat for us on Saturday and instead of throwing them in front of the TV made mini pizzas and carved pumpkins with them. OK, so I did some of the carving today...

- We had stake conference this weekend. For the non-Mormons reading this, that means we had a big meeting with the other groups of our faith in this area. A 2 hour meeting. Sitting through 2 hours worth of meeting with 4 small children can be... um.. agonizing, at times. I am beaming about how well behaved every one of them was. They were positively incredible. Even Phebe, who at one point was singing loudly after the song was over. I told her "Sh, it is quiet time." She said "NO! QUIET! YOU QUIET!" There was lots of giggling all around us. But she did quiet down and started sitting peacefully with a woman she had not met before looking at the books I had brought for her. My kids are awesome.

- The electric bill was zero this month. They goofed last month so we are ahead.

- I enjoyed going out to dinner with my family tonight. They were well behaved and entertained everyone around them. Caleb doing his shy smiles, Phebe being Phebe, Naomi and Victor doing a fabulous performance of

The waitress thought they were quite entertaining.

This is probably my favorite part recently-
I LOVE sitting around talking to my husband. I love sitting on the couch listening to him. I love snuggling in bed talking about the day. I cherish the moments I have of basking in this attention. Last night we just sat on the couch and talked. It makes me so happy. I am so glad he let me get to know him.

What kinds of things have made you happy recently?

Nature's Bubble Wrap

There is a few specific kinds of bushes around here that I love walking by. Why? Because I like to pick a leaf off and carry it with me down the side walk. As I continue walking I fold the leaf. Sounds silly I know. But those leaves make a very satisfying sound and feel great while I crinkle it up.
I once described it to a friend of mine. She summed it up so well.-"It's like nature's bubble wrap."

She's right.

Wearing hard soled shoes and stomping on acorns is another sensation that is so gratifying. I love the pop and crunch when you get a good one. Even now while waiting at the bus stop or getting out of the car in the church parking lot, I will look around for a good acorn to crunch.

I find it amazing that cool as bubble wrap is, nature still have something to rival it.

I was unable to put the bubble wrap directly on my page. However you can go here and pop to your hearts content. Or you could just outside and crunch something.

What do you find satisfying?

Repentance

The text for this incredibly awesome talk is right here. This is a very inspiring and insightful talk, in my opinion.

He starts by talking about Nehor, found in (Alma 1:4 in the Book of Mormon). Then he moves on to Korihor the anti-Christ in Alma 30. The account of Korihor is one of my favorite passages of scripture. I can easily see the thought process all around me.
Some profess that if there is a God, He makes no real demands upon us (see Alma 18:5). Others maintain that a loving God forgives all sin based on simple confession, or if there actually is a punishment for sin, “God will beat us with a few stripes, and at last we shall be saved in the kingdom of God” (2 Nephi 28:8). Others, with Korihor, deny the very existence of Christ and any such thing as sin. Their doctrine is that values, standards, and even truth are all relative. Thus, whatever one feels is right for him or her cannot be judged by others to be wrong or sinful.

I love this take on repentance. It sounds so much more positive to me in this context.
Without repentance, there is no real progress or improvement in life. Pretending there is no sin does not lessen its burden and pain. Suffering for sin does not by itself change anything for the better. Only repentance leads to the sunlit uplands of a better life.

Repentance is a divine gift, and there should be a smile on our faces when we speak of it. It points us to freedom, confidence, and peace. Rather than interrupting the celebration, the gift of repentance is the cause for true celebration.

5 aspects of this principle-First, the invitation to repent is an expression of love. A permissive parent, an indulgent friend, a fearful Church leader are in reality more concerned about themselves than the welfare and happiness of those they could help. Yes, the call to repentance is at times regarded as intolerant or offensive and may even be resented, but guided by the Spirit, it is in reality an act of genuine caring. I think this is a weakness of mine.

Second, repentance means striving to change. It would mock the Savior’s suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane and on the cross for us to expect that He should transform us into angelic beings with no real effort on our part.

Third, repentance means not only abandoning sin but also committing to obedience. Professor Noel Reynolds, “The choice to repent is a choice to burn bridges in every direction [having determined] to follow forever only one way, the one path that leads to eternal life.”

Fourth, repentance requires a seriousness of purpose and a willingness to persevere, even through pain.Attempts to create a list of specific steps of repentance may be helpful to some, but it may also lead to a mechanical, check-off-the-boxes approach with no real feeling or change.I think I am guilty of this mentality occasionally.  True repentance is not superficial.

With faith in the merciful Redeemer and His power, potential despair turns to hope. One’s very heart and desires change, and the once-appealing sin becomes increasingly abhorrent. Any pain entailed in repentance will always be far less than the suffering required to satisfy justice for unresolved transgression.

Fifth, whatever the cost of repentance, it is swallowed up in the joy of forgiveness. -An amazing thought to me.
The divine gift of repentance is the key to happiness here and hereafter. In the Savior’s words and in deep humility and love, I invite all to “repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand”. I know that in accepting this invitation, you will find joy both now and forever.

Friday, October 28, 2011

The Redemption

Text can be found here.


I enjoyed this story. I also like how easy it was to comprehend the idea of a Savior as illustrated here.
We all have a sense of what it means to be saved because each of us has been saved at some time from something. As children, my sister and I were playing in a river in a small boat when we unwisely left the safe area of play and found ourselves being propelled by the current to unknown perils downstream. In response to our cries, our father ran to the rescue, saving us from the dangers of the river. When I think of saving, I think of that experience.

The title “Redeemer” provides similar insights. “To redeem” is to buy or to buy back. As a legal matter, property is redeemed by paying off the mortgages or other liens on it. In Old Testament times, the law of Moses provided different ways that servants and property could be freed, or redeemed, by the payment of money.

The redemption referred to in these three scriptures, of course, is the Atonement of Jesus Christ.Unlike the redemptions under the law of Moses or in modern legal arrangements, this redemption does not come by “corruptible things, as silver and gold” “In [Christ] we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace” President John Taylor taught that because of the Redeemer’s sacrifice, “the debt is paid, the redemption made, the covenant fulfilled, justice satisfied, the will of God done, and all power is … given into the hands of the Son of God”

The effects of this redemption include the overcoming of physical death for all of God’s children. That is, temporal death is overcome, and all will be resurrected. Another aspect of this redemption by Christ is the victory over spiritual death. Through His suffering and death, Christ paid for the sins of all mankind on condition of individual repentance.


He also shares a neat series of events about individual lives being redeemed.
Thus, if we repent, we can be forgiven of our sins, the price having been paid by our Redeemer.
I bear my testimony of the power of Christ’s Atonement. When we repent and come to Him, we can receive all of the blessings of eternal life. That we may do so, receiving our own story of redemption, is my prayer.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

A change of tactics

For a good chunk of my parenthood I have had some odd helpers around the house. Kids? Well, sometimes. But we have had many guest appearances by big celebrities. Just to name we a few-
  • Spiderman
  • Darth Vader
  • Superman
  • Ironman
  • Superhero
It is possible they have appeared in your home too.

I keep wanting to refere to this in past tense but it is still going on in my home occasionally.

Though less often, I still have to pull out the "alter ego tactic" with my kids at times.

Naomi went through a phrase where she would flatly refuse to do ANYTHING  you asked her to do if you said "Naomi". Now if you said "Puppy, it is time to put away your laundry." That puppy would gladly go right to work. One of the slight problems was that you had to know who she was that day. If you called her by the wrong name she would either ignore the command or you would be informed of the correct character in front of you.

We have had laundry put away and dishwashers unloaded by-
  • The above mentioned super heroes, and yes some days it was simply "Super hero".
  • Puppy
  • Baby kitty
  • Ducky
  • Raphael the Ninja Turtle
  • Mouse
  • Ninja
  • Monkey
  • And..... baby Godzilla.
Maybe at your house your kid needs a break from chores. Maybe you need to enlist a Ninja Turtle to clean that bedroom full of dangerous bombs up. (Sometimes it helps if you switch into your own alter ego. I have been known to be a Ninja Sensai in my time.)

Go ahead, spice things up.

Missing out

I have a child who is technically less than 2 years old.

She does not accept such accusations though. She is one of those big kids. The big kids who get their own food out. That dress themselves, that get to decide where they sit. The kids that can read books, and climb things. Ride bikes and carry on conversations. Those cool kids that buckle themselves into their car seats and pour their own drinks. That's right, she is one of them.

Except, she's not. She's shy of 2. Precocious, but 2.

She has opinions. Lots of 'em. She has passion and drive. Toys? Those are for babies. She won't condescend to such immature past times And oh, she is full of ideas. She was a major player in that spaghetti mess I mentioned a while back.

She has started a new hobby recently. One that I will whole heartedly support.

She nests. You will find her in the middle of the living room. She pulls blankets out and piles them neatly around her. In fact the other day she found me cooking. She explained that I needed to see her blanket. It went something like this-P: "(incoherent mumbling and random syllables) blanket." So she led me by the hand out into the living room to admire her handiwork. 3 pillows, 1 large blanket, a broken mardi gras necklace and a book. Her little treasure trove.

She disappeared immediately after prayers 2 nights ago with a piece of fleece. "Time for bed Phebe!" We found her dragging that fleece off to add to her nest. She was livid when she was taken away from the fleece and placed in her crib.

She is very popular at the bus stop. The comment was made recently "You sure are cute, but I have a feeling you are more fun to watch from a distance than it would be to actually take care of you."

I smiled, paused and then said "She is exciting to care for, but you miss out on so many little things if you only see her from a distance."

It would be so sad to me to miss out on her moments. The moments where she understands. The moments when she is on a mission. When she tells you things. How sad I would be to miss out on her attempts at tickling me. Or how she loves it when my hair is in a pony tail she can pet. How desperately she wants to have an important task to accomplish. The way she beams when you catch on to what song she is singing, or how enthusiastically she dances when you turn on music. Her willingness to get down and wrestle with the big kids. The squeals when she is chased.

She does indeed require lots of supervision. (She doesn't even make it through the night with her pajamas still on unless she is safety pinned in.) Dancing on the piano was a glamorous thing to do for a good while. She hasn't accepted that some furniture isn't for climbing on yet and she is very wiggly through meetings.

What a hole would be left in my heart if she were not here though. She brings so much to those around her.I can not wait to see what her life will bring. Easier from a distance? Maybe. But so much less rewarding.

Looking up

Enjoy this incredibly uplifting talk. Follow the text here.  If you are feeling depressed or weighed down, please listen to this simple, sweet and profound message.


I can relate to this kind of moment-
At the end of a particularly tiring day toward the end of my first week as a General Authority, my briefcase was overloaded and my mind was preoccupied with the question “How can I possibly do this?” I left the office of the Seventy and entered the elevator of the Church Administration Building. As the elevator descended, my head was down and I stared blankly at the floor.

The door opened and someone entered, but I didn’t look up. As the door closed, I heard someone ask, “What are you looking at down there?” I recognized that voice—it was President Thomas S. Monson.


I quickly looked up and responded, “Oh, nothing.” (I’m sure that clever response inspired confidence in my abilities!)


But he had seen my subdued countenance and my heavy briefcase. He smiled and lovingly suggested, while pointing heavenward, “It is better to look up!” As we traveled down one more level, he cheerfully explained that he was on his way to the temple. When he bid me farewell, his parting glance spoke again to my heart, “Now, remember, it is better to look up.”


I was burdened and my head was down. As the prophet spoke, I looked to him. He redirected my focus to look up to God, where I could be healed and strengthened through Christ’s Atonement. That is what prophets do for us. They lead us to God. I don't know that I had ever thought of prophets in this way. I always defined them as God's spokesman on Earth. It was a new layer to me.

In order to be guided in life’s journey and have the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost, we must have a “hearing ear” and a “seeing eye,” both directed upward. We must act on the direction we receive. We must look up and step up. And as we do, I know we will cheer up, for God wants us to be happy.
During this talk he mentions some of the reasons as to why we might not look up. For me sometimes, I think just want to be mad for a little while. Or maybe I feel like my sorrow is justified and I am happy wallowing for a while. I will work harder on looking up, not enjoying my misery.
“Let us remember him, … and not hang down our heads,” for, as President Monson said, “It is better to look up.”

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Cebu!

I just couldn't put Veggie Tales in the same post as August Rush. The following 2 videos just make me smile everytime I see them.




Some more music

I really enjoy the movie "August Rush". Last night I pulled it off the shelf and started to rewatch it. Sticking with tradition, I would like to share my favorite scenes with you.

There is a lot of music in this movie. So these are just music they performed.

I LOVE this scene. I can and have watched it over and over again.

I think the sound is just slightly unsynchronized on this next one. But the music is still worth listening to.

If you haven't seen the movie and ever intend to, don't watch this next video. It is the ending.


I love the music in this movie.

TIme marches on

This is one of the talks that stuck with me most from Conference. It is an area of weakness for me. You can read the text here.


I sincerely loved this talk. It was very much meant for me. I hope you get something from it that will help in your life.
Time is never for sale; time is a commodity that cannot, try as you may, be bought at any store for any price. Yet when time is wisely used, its value is immeasurable. On any given day we are all allocated, without cost, the same number of minutes and hours to use, and we soon learn, as the familiar hymn so carefully teaches, “Time flies on wings of lightning; we cannot call it back.”

I found this to be an intimidating thought. What if I were called in to account for what I have done wiht my time? President Brigham Young said, “We are all indebted to God for the ability to use time to advantage, and he will require of us a strict account of [its] disposition”

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf reminded us that “in family relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e.This reminds me of the big thing in the world right now about "quality time". You can not schedule when your kid will get the guts to talk to you about something that is bothering them. You just need to be available when they are ready.

How sad it would be if the phone and computer, with all their sophistication, drowned out the simplicity of sincere prayer to a loving Father in Heaven. Let us be as quick to kneel as we are to text. LOVE that line.

I urge each of us to take those things which rob us of precious time and determine to be their master, rather than allowing them through their addictive nature to be the master of us.

Time marches swiftly forward to the tick of the clock. Today would be a good day, while the clock of mortality ticks, to review what we are doing to prepare to meet God. When I looked back over my general conference notes I found what I had written about this talk- "Am I using my time in mortality to prepare for immorality?"

Friday, October 21, 2011

Watch out Grandma!

Yet something else that made me smile.



That is what my blog is for. Collecting stuff that makes me laugh.

My non stamp collection

I think this talk may have made some people a tad bit uncomfortable. It certainly isn't politically correct, not at this time when there is so much going on about over population. Cool thing is, God made this earth everybody was so concerned about. So if he says the earth can handle us all and we should keep having kids, I am going with his plan.

You can read the text of his talk here.

When a child is born to a husband and wife, they are fulfilling part of our Heavenly Father’s plan to bring children to earth. The Lord said, “This is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” Before immortality, there must be mortality. That part about mortality before immortality struck me as particularly profound.

I used this quote on Sunday for the class I was teaching.  “Where once the standards of the Church and the standards of society were mostly compatible, now there is a wide chasm between us, and it’s growing ever wider. … President Monson.

Many voices in the world today marginalize the importance of having children or suggest delaying or limiting children in a family. My daughters recently referred me to a blog written by a Christian mother (not of our faith) with five children. She commented: “[Growing] up in this culture, it is very hard to get a biblical perspective on motherhood. … Children rank way below college. Below world travel for sure. Below the ability to go out at night at your leisure. Below honing your body at the gym. Below any job you may have or hope to get.” She then adds: “Motherhood is not a hobby, it is a calling. You do not collect children because you find them cuter than stamps. It is not something to do if you can squeeze the time in. It is what God gave you time for.” I love that!

“If you are concerned about providing financially for a wife and family, may I assure you that there is no shame in a couple having to scrimp and save. It is generally during these challenging times that you will grow closer together as you learn to sacrifice and to make difficult decisions.” -Monson
 
“Faithful members whose circumstances do not allow them to receive the blessings of eternal marriage and parenthood in this life will receive all promised blessings in the eternities, [as] they keep the covenants they have made with God.”

Families are central to God’s eternal plan. I testify of the great blessing of children and of the happiness they will bring us in this life and in the eternities. I can add my personal testimony about the happiness they bring to my life.

Amazing!

Naomi: Look Mom look! I can lick my chest!

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Buffalo!

I recently came across these videos. They are short and entertaining. Don't bother watching them if you don't have sound. The lyrics to the "song" in the background is what makes it. Enjoy!


It's cheaper than adoption!

The wired generation with a purpose.

This talk did not really go along the lines I had envisioned. Sometimes I feel like talks are about general or vague things. Abstract concepts. This talk starts like that. Half way through though, it totally switches gears. Same topic but a whole new application of it. (At least to me anyway.)

You can read the text here.




The restoration of the sealing authority by Elijah in 1836 was necessary to prepare the world for the Savior’s Second Coming and initiated a greatly increased and worldwide interest in family history research.

I am honestly amazed how many people who are not LDS care so much about genealogy and family history.Elder Russell M. Nelson has taught that the Spirit of Elijah is “a manifestation of the Holy Ghost bearing witness of the divine nature of the family”. This distinctive influence of the Holy Ghost draws people to identify, document, and cherish their ancestors and family members—both past and present.

The Spirit of Elijah affects people inside and outside of the Church. However, as members of Christ’s restored Church, we have the covenant responsibility to search out our ancestors and provide for them the saving ordinances of the gospel. “They without us should not be made perfect”. And “neither can we without our dead be made perfect”
To me this is kind of an interesting paradox, We and They can not be perfect without each other.

Here is where things seemed really new and different to me-
Many of you may think family history work is to be performed primarily by older people. But I know of no age limit described in the scriptures or guidelines announced by Church leaders restricting this important service to mature adults. You are sons and daughters of God, children of the covenant, and builders of the kingdom. You need not wait until you reach an arbitrary age to fulfill your responsibility to assist in the work of salvation for the human family.

So when people say things like "Kids just come wired to understand electronics today" it isn't their imagination. I don't know why it didn't occur to me that God had sent the youth here with this specific gift for a reason. Somehow I just thought it was a product of the environment they were in.It is no coincidence that FamilySearch and other tools have come forth at a time when young people are so familiar with a wide range of information and communication technologies. Your fingers have been trained to text and tweet to accelerate and advance the work of the Lord—not just to communicate quickly with your friends. The skills and aptitude evident among many young people today are a preparation to contribute to the work of salvation.

Parents and leaders, you will stand all amazed at how rapidly your children and the youth of the Church become highly skilled with these tools. In fact, you will learn valuable lessons from these young people about effectively using these resources. The youth can offer much to older individuals who are uncomfortable with or intimidated by technology or are unfamiliar with FamilySearch.

My beloved young brothers and sisters, family history is not simply an interesting program or activity sponsored by the Church; rather, it is a vital part of the work of salvation and exaltation. You have been prepared for this day and to build up the kingdom of God. You are here upon the earth now to assist in this glorious work.
I need to change my perception. I need to internalize how vital it really is.

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Just singing and dancing in the rain!

So on Saturday my kids decided they needed to watch the whole movie Singin in the Rain.

Ok, I helped this desire along a bit. Showing them clips of the movie on Youtube...

I do not own a copy of said movie. Grandma does however. So they ventured over to grandmas house ( Mom and Dad went to see The Help) and had an evening of Singing in the Rain, fudge and popcorn.

That night as we put them to bed there was a chorus of " Moses supposes his toeses are roses..." going on.

In honor of this wonderful film and my kids sudden delight in it I will share their two favorite scenes with you.


Naomi is now working feverishly on mastering her tap dancing skills. She even has a pair of Sunday shoes she wears at all times to practice.

Hope you were able to enjoy some fond memories of your own. I need to sit down and watch the whole movie myself.

Off target

I was glancing over my blog's stats. One of the categories they list is "key phrases".

One of my key phrases was " candice in a platypus suit".

I am a bit confused.

Bread! Glorious Bread!

Although I am not personally eating bread right now I am trying very hard not to impose it on my family. So the other day I got out the wheat grinder, ground a can of wheat and made the best bread dough I have ever fed them. At least that is what I hear.

If you don't have a good recipe try this one. It is entitled "Simple whole wheat bread", found on the allrecipes.com page

Prep Time:

20 MinCook Time:
30 MinReady In:
3 Hrs

Ingredients



3 cups warm water (110 degrees F/45 degrees C)
2 (.25 ounce) packages active dry yeast
1/3 cup honey
5 cups bread flour
3 tablespoons butter,
 melted 1/3 cup honey
1 tablespoon salt
3 1/2 cups whole wheat flour
 2 tablespoons butter, melted


Directions
In a large bowl, mix warm water, yeast, and 1/3 cup honey. Add 5 cups white bread flour, and stir to combine. Let set for 30 minutes, or until big and bubbly.


Mix in 3 tablespoons melted butter, 1/3 cup honey, and salt. Stir in 2 cups whole wheat flour. Flour a flat surface and knead with whole wheat flour until not real sticky - just pulling away from the counter, but still sticky to touch. This may take an additional 2 to 4 cups of whole wheat flour. Place in a greased bowl, turning once to coat the surface of the dough. Cover with a dishtowel. Let rise in a warm place until doubled.


Punch down, and divide into 3 loaves. Place in greased 9 x 5 inch loaf pans, and allow to rise until dough has topped the pans by one inch.


Bake at 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) for 25 to 30 minutes; do not overbake. Lightly brush the tops of loaves with 2 tablespoons melted butter or margarine when done to prevent crust from getting hard. Cool completely

If you have an awesome bread recipe please share it with me. I love bread and have a goal in life to be good at making it. A good recipe is an important key to that.

You matter

How can we go wrong with a title like "You matter to Him"?

Enjoy the text here.

The Lord uses a scale very different from the world’s to weigh the worth of a soul.

Given the vastness of God’s creations, it’s no wonder the great King Benjamin counseled his people to “always retain in remembrance, the greatness of God, and your own nothingness.”



But even though man is nothing, it fills me with wonder and awe to think that “the worth of souls is great in the sight of God.”


The vast expanse of eternity, the glories and mysteries of infinite space and time are all built for the benefit of ordinary mortals like you and me. Our Heavenly Father created the universe that we might reach our potential as His sons and daughters.

This is such a cool point to me.I wrote it down in my journal when I was taking notes.
This is a paradox of man: compared to God, man is nothing; yet we are everything to God.

Here are the two ways Satan skews our perception
The great deceiver knows that one of his most effective tools in leading the children of God astray is to appeal to the extremes of the paradox of man. To some, he appeals to their prideful tendencies, puffing them up and encouraging them to believe in the fantasy of their own self-importance and invincibility.
This is the one he finds most useful on me. I am going to work harder on making it ineffective.
Another way Satan deceives is through discouragement. He attempts to focus our sight on our own insignificance until we begin to doubt that we have much worth. He tells us that we are too small for anyone to take notice, that we are forgotten—especially by God.



What mattered to Him was that I was doing the best I could, that my heart was inclined toward Him, and that I was willing to help those around me. I knew if I did the best I could, all would be well.


I thought this line was just so poetic and beautiful.
The Lord doesn’t care at all if we spend our days working in marble halls or stable stalls.

Apostle Paul: “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.”

May we be worthy of the precious blessings our Heavenly Father has in store for us is my prayer in the name of His Son, even Jesus Christ, amen.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Young Crows in Enemy Territory

The text for this very inspirational and prophetic talk can be found here. I really enjoyed and reccomend this talk.


I am now 87 years old. You may wonder, at my age what I can contribute to your lives. I have been where you are and know where you are going. But you have not yet been where I am. I quote a few lines of classic poetry:

The old crow is getting slow.
The young crow is not.
Of what the young crow does not know
The old crow knows a lot.

At knowing things the old crow
Is still the young crow’s master.
What does the slow old crow not know?
—How to go faster.

The young crow flies above, below,
And rings around the slow old crow.
What does the fast young crow not know?
—Where to go.

With all that is going on in the world, with the lowering of moral standards, you young people are being raised in enemy territory.

The Prophet Joseph Smith taught, “All beings who have bodies have power over those who have not.” So every living soul who has a physical body ultimately has power over the adversary. You suffer temptations because of your physical nature, but you also have power over him and his angels.

I love the simple profound truth in this quote-
It is not expected that you go through life without making mistakes, but you will not make a major mistake without first being warned by the promptings of the Spirit.

I love the power in this clip -
As one of His special witnesses, I testify that the outcome of this battle that began in the premortal life is not in question. Lucifer will lose.

I have had this same thought process occasionally-
Sometimes you might be tempted to think as I did from time to time in my youth: “The way things are going, the world’s going to be over with. The end of the world is going to come before I get to where I should be.” Not so! You can look forward to doing it right—getting married, having a family, seeing your children and grandchildren, maybe even great-grandchildren.

This was an excellent talk and I hope you take the time to read or listen to it.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

To the Rescue!

You can follow along with the text here.

 Each day we have the opportunity to give help and service—doing the right thing at the right time, without delay. Think of the many people who have a difficult time obtaining a job or who are ill, who feel lonely, who even think that they have lost everything. What can you do to help? Imagine that a neighbor, caught out in the rain with his car broken down, calls you for assistance. What is the right thing to do for him? When is the right time to do it?

I really enjoyed this story and the moral.
I recall an occasion when we went as a family to downtown Mexico City to buy clothing for our two children. They were very young. Our older son was just barely two years old, and the younger son was a year old. The street was crowded with people. While we were shopping, leading our children by the hand, we stopped for a moment to look at something, and without realizing it, we lost our older son! We did not know how, but he was not with us. Without a moment’s delay, we took off running to look for him. We searched and called out for him, feeling great anguish, thinking that we might lose him forever. In our minds we were pleading for Heavenly Father to help us find him.



After a little while we found him. There he was, innocently looking at toys through a store window. We hugged and kissed him, and we made the commitment to watch over our children diligently so that we would never lose one again. We learned that in order to go to our son’s rescue, we did not need planning meetings. We simply acted, going out in search of the one who had been lost. We also learned that our son never even realized that he was lost.


There may be many who, for some reason, are lost from our sight and who do not know that they are lost. If we delay, we could lose them forever.


I love that you don't have to have a planning meeting or offically decide on a course of action

President Monson said: “The Lord expects our thinking. He expects our action. He expects our labors. He expects our testimonies. He expects our devotion.”

Temples

Text found here.


This is President Monson. He is the current prophet of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latterday Saints. This is more of an update talk. He has several more talks that I will share as we continue to journey through General Conference. I was surprised at how many inspriational thoughts there were in this little 6 minute update.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   


First, may I mention that no Church-built facility is more important than a temple. Temples are places where relationships are sealed together to last through the eternities. We are grateful for all the many temples across the world and for the blessing they are in the lives of our members.


I am also pleased to announce new temples in the following locations:
Barranquilla, Colombia
Durban, South Africa
 Kinshasa in the Democratic Republic of the Congo
Star Valley, Wyoming.
 In addition, we are moving forward on our plans for a temple to be built in Paris, France.
If you are interested, here is a list of all the current LDS temples. I highly encourage you to check it out and see if there is one near you. While you will not be able to enter the temple building, there is often a visitors center and beautiful temple grounds. It is always a lovely way to spend a day.

I thought this was so cool!
There are still areas of the world where temples are so distant from our members that they cannot afford the travel required to get to them. They are thus unable to partake of the sacred and eternal blessings temples provide. To help in this regard, we have available what is called the General Temple Patron Assistance Fund. This fund provides a one-time visit to the temple for those who otherwise would not be able to go to the temple and yet who long desperately for that opportunity.

I just wanted to share some pictures of temples that I get to visit often.  This is the Washington D.C. temple. This is where I got married.
Photograph of the Washington D.C. Mormon Temple
We were recently switched to the Columbus Ohio temple district. It is significantly smaller, but very lovely.
Columbus Ohio Mormon Temple

Temples are so wonderful.

A deer!

While driving down the road the other day Ethan and I got to listen to this insightful conversation-

N: Look! Look! Deer! I see Deer!
V: Oh! Oh I see them!
N: A daddy deer is called a moose.
V: Yea! I know what a baby deer is called too. It is a faunt.

Sometimes I am told how brilliant my kids are. Other times I feel like I have failed.

Peanut Butter

One of the bridal shower gifts I received was a giant cookie cook book. I think we have used about 3 recipes from it. The very first recipe in the book is for "Monster Cookies". That recipe alone make it worth owning that book. It is great. No flour, nearly a whole jar of peanut butter and lots of oatmeal. My husband has mastered it and gets lots of compliments about it. I just smile and say "Nope, Ethan made these. He sure is awesome isn't he?" (He is a baker. I put in token efforts occasionally.)
Monster Cookies VI Recipe
I love cookie dough. For a brief period of time my sister in law and her family lived with us. ( Yes, she is the mother of the boy who said thank you for his nipples.) She makes really yummy chocolate chip cookies. I personally prefer dough to cookie so she would let me have a little dish of dough. (She is very thoughtful.)

Of course when Ethan and I first tried this recipe we had to taste the dough before baking it. We learned monster cookies have terrible tasting dough. I do not know why it is so awful, but it is very undesirable.

It did not appear we were off to a good start on this kind of cookie.

We got to the baking step. When removed from the oven we tried some while they were hot. The cookies continued to be disappointing.

This is what we learned and hope you appreciate our wisdom being passed onto you.

Cookies  must cool down before you can taste the peanut butter.

Peanut butter cookies, peanut butter blossoms, monster cookies... anything that includes peanut butter will taste just kind of blandly sweet until it cools. I do not understand why, but I have tasted it over and over again.

So if you make a cookie that includes peanut butter and it is disappointing when you pull it out of the oven, give it a few minutes to cool. It will probably get better. Unless of course you did something like add too much baking soda, in that case call it a biscuit and put some butter on.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

A smile






Here is something to help you smile today.

Friday, October 14, 2011

The great spaghetti mess

So while I had a fabulous chat with my cousin this morning Caleb and Phebe wasted no time.

They dumped 3 boxes of spaghetti, 1 marshmallow bag, 2 boxes of rice, 1 lasagna box, and a box of bow tie noodles. Some in the storage room ( that will get a lock as soon as I go shopping tomorrow). Some was dumped on the floor in the girl's room, on the bed, inside a toy box. And just to spice things up, let's open an old filing cabinet and throw some old documents in there.

I don't know if you have ever tried to clean a box of spaghetti off of a carpet. It is astoundingly difficult. In the end I step on them to crush it up and then vacuum.

I was mad. I was really mad. I thought I was angry at them. Though the prideful part of me tried to keep up that charade I knew what was really wrong. I was mad at myself. I should never have left them unsupervised for so long. I know Phebe WILL find something to get into. They left me alone. It was a huge warning sign.

Both of them were confined to their beds while I undertook the huge project of clean up. I am so grateful I have a vacuum. Cleaning dry broken spaghetti out of a carpet would have been so much harder without.

This will sound so strange, I know it seemed strange to me while it happened. The rice had been dumped into neat piles. While vacuuming it made the most satisfying sounds. And there was no mess left after. It was almost like a reward for taking care of all the other messes. It was similar to the sensation of popping bubble wrap.

I am sad that so much food and time was wasted. I am sad I allowed that situation to arise. I am sorry I let my temper get so heated.

I am grateful that I was able to finish up on such a pleasant note as vacuuming rice. I was able to gather my thoughts and move on with a better attitude.

A Mighty Work

I found this talk to be particularly poetic. The text can be found here.



 This work of the Lord is indeed great and marvelous, but it moves forward essentially unnoticed by many of mankind’s political, cultural, and academic leaders. It progresses one heart and one family at a time, silently and unobtrusively, its sacred message blessing people everywhere.


The angel Moroni first appeared to Joseph Smith in 1823 and told him “that God had a work for [him] to do; and that [his] name should be had for good and evil among all nations, kindreds, and tongues.”
This reminds of the publicity the church has gotten recently about being refered to as "unchristain" and "a cult."

We are grateful for Joseph Smith and watch with wonder as his name is revered and, yes, even reviled ever more widely across the earth. But we recognize that this mighty latter-day work is not about him. It is the work of Almighty God and His Son, the Prince of Peace. I testify that Jesus Christ is the Savior, and with you, I stand in awe as this work moves forward miraculously, marvelously, and irresistibly. Indeed, “the time [has] come when the knowledge of a Savior … spread[s] throughout every nation, kindred, tongue, and people.” I bear testimony of Him, the Savior of all mankind, and of this work in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Revelation just for you

Text found here.
Barbara Thompson is the 2nd counselor in the Relief Society ( the woman's organzation) presidency.


The way to receive personal revelation is really quite clear. We need to desire to receive revelation, we must not harden our hearts, and then we need to ask in faith, truly believe that we will receive an answer, and then diligently keep the commandments of God.


Most often personal revelation will come as we study the scriptures, listen to and follow the counsel of prophets and other Church leaders, and seek to live faithful, righteous lives. Sometimes inspiration will come from a single verse of scripture or from a line in a conference talk. Perhaps your answer will come when the Primary children are singing a beautiful song. These are all forms of revelation.

I can tell you that I have recieved revelation for myself through talks. President Uchtdorf's talk at the Relief Society broadcast a few weeks ago was very personal to me.

I love this quote from Eliza R Snow, ‘Tell the sisters to go forth and discharge their duties, in humility and faithfulness and the Spirit of God will rest upon them and they will be blest in their labors. Let them seek for wisdom instead of power and they will have all the power they have wisdom to exercise.’

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Popmeal

I just came across a factoid I didn't know previously. Since some of you may not know it I'll pass it along.

Popcorn can be stored longer than cornmeal. Popcorn can be thrown in a grinder and then made into cornmeal.

Just thought I would let you know.

My packet of light

The first speaker on Saturday was Richard G. Scott. You can read  the text here.

I liked this thought-
Because scriptures are generated from inspired communication through the Holy Ghost, they are pure truth. We need not be concerned about the validity of concepts contained in the standard works since the Holy Ghost has been the instrument which has motivated and inspired those individuals who have recorded the scriptures.


How do you personally use the scriptures? Do you mark your copy?  
I had only occasionally been doing this.Since this talk I have had a pen and colored pencil close at hand. I do think I am getting more from it. I feel almost like I am on a hunt to find something to mark every time I read now.
 
The big thing I got from this talk was how he read the scriptures. For this reason I think listening to him speak is a good idea. I loved the inflection in his voice. I think sometimes scriptures seem so boring because they are read so blandly. I am going to work on trying to read with expression and emotion.
 
 

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

A sandy day

Ok, I said Monday I would get started on General conference. I didn't. Eventually I will.

Until then...
This is what has been going on.

We juiced grapes. 30 quarts worth.

While we  juiced grapes Phebe chewed through a package of powdered sugar.

Caleb and Naomi played happily outside. When asked what they were doing they said "Putting sand in our shoes because it feels so good."

So I leave you with this thought: If today is hard , maybe you should just try putting some sand in your shoes.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Today was Good

Somedays are just good.

Today was a day of cleaning the church. It was a day of learning a lesson myself I was trying to teach my son. You just keep working even if no one else is.

Today was a day the house got cleaned. Ok, until we ate lunch and walked out the door. Then I noticed all the car ramps that had been set up in the previously clean living room. My husband has suggested calling it the "chaos room."

We picked up Ethan and he made hot dogs on his special hotdog roller for us. We washed the car together. Phebe didn't cry and scream and throw temper tantrums.

We went to the big park near dad's work. They played and were volunteering to get in the car when we were done.

Went to bed with out drama. Read some "Indian in the Cupboard to them."

It was a good day. Peaceful and happy. It is wonderful to be alive.

Friday, October 7, 2011

Jelly and Jenny

The text for General conference is out now. Monday morning I will start doing each talk with the video and text.

 Due to random health issues at the moment I have annoying diet restrictions. I can not eat, but would love to have a sandwich. All I really want is a sandwich made with crunchy peanut butter, raspberry jam on wheat bread. I think my life would be complete at that point. Imagine how incomplete your life could be if you could no longer eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.


For now though, I have a funny song for you to listen to. Please listen the whole way to the conclusion. It makes me smile.





I am going to go eat bacon now.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

The perfect woman

The other day my 7  year old son informed me -
 "When I grow up I am going to marry a girl who doesn't know how to make enchilladas."

Sunday, October 2, 2011

So very grateful

So my less than 2 year old thinks saying prayers if very glamorous.This is how this evening's prayer time with her went-

Ethan : Dear Heavenly Father
Phebe: *something incoherant*
E: Thank thee
P: Thank 'ee Daddy Mommy Nomi
E: and Victor
P: Nomi
E: Victor
P: Nomi
E: um, ok. Caleb
P: Nomi
E: In the name of Jesus
P: Jesus. AMEN!

I guess she is really grateful for Naomi.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Popcorn!

I wanted to share with you the videos with the song popcorn.

This is the origional version. I quite enjoy it.

Here we have the one my kids request frequently. Crazy Frog style.


And last, but certainly not least, is the awesome video we discovered today. How could you go wrong with the Swedish Chef.