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Journal writing.
Yup. I keep a journal. There are a lot of things I don't do. There are a lot of things I get down on myself for failing in.
Keeping a regular journal is not one of them.
For years and years, I kept a sporadic record. Meaning, I wrote something in there 1-15 times ALL year. Someone then shared with me a secret that has made keeping a journal easy and rewarding for me. I'll share that secret in a moment.
One problem I had, the biggest problem I had, with keeping a journal was that it was intimidating to try to write all the things that were going on. This is especially troubling if you haven't written in 18 months. I didn't do anything so many times on the grounds that there was too much to write and I didn't know where to start.
I also have the obstacle which made it appear that I only wrote in my journal when I was upset over something. That wasn't how I want posterity to remember me.
If you have these problems also, let me share with you the secret that got me going.
Get a journal, notebook, whatever you want to keep a record in. Then each day pick 3 things you are grateful for. Write just those 3 things.
For me just having to think of 3 things too so much of the pressure off. It also helped me to keep my eyes open to what a great life I really have.
I'll admit it, some days it a bit more difficult to think of 3 whole things to be grateful for.
Some of my entries include things like-
- I am grateful for chapstick.
- Running hot water.
- That the baby generally sleeps better than she had that night.
- My bed.
- That I usually have more control over my temper than I seemed to have that day.
- That my kids had never before poured whole pitchers full of water on the living room rug.
- My dishwasher.
- Ice cream.
I have learned to love my journal dearly. It makes me happy I have been doing it for so long, for all the happy memories to reread. For how simple and quick it is.
So grab a notebook and think of your first 3 things.
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